<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959</id><updated>2011-11-27T16:01:14.856-08:00</updated><category term='The Mail Bag'/><category term='20 years'/><category term='15 years'/><category term='Videos'/><category term='Situations and Scenarios'/><category term='10 years'/><category term='5 years'/><category term='Emotionally &apos;dis&apos;connected'/><category term='Soap Box'/><category term='Topic of the Day'/><title type='text'>Marriage Dish</title><subtitle type='html'>&lt;center&gt;The definitive marriage blog, given from the his &amp; her perspective.&lt;/center&gt;</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>11</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-7907003799417109241</id><published>2008-05-30T07:20:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-30T07:38:53.576-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Team Player?</title><summary type='text'>I was just thinking...Marriage is about teamwork.  In order to accomplish that, you must have mutual goals.  Everyone must contribute to the success of "YOUR TEAM". For instance, if Kobe was the only Laker on the court playing for a championship game, he'd never win.  At some point, he would get tired and either sit down or fall down, with no team. But, with a little team effort, he becomes </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/7907003799417109241/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=7907003799417109241&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/7907003799417109241'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/7907003799417109241'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/team-player.html' title='Team Player?'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-6939342943800399097</id><published>2008-05-21T12:56:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-23T21:15:25.899-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Situations and Scenarios'/><title type='text'>The Dinner Party...</title><summary type='text'>First of all, who's job is it anyway to invite people to the house? Come on, tell the truth. We all well know that when company comes to the crib, the boss (read the wife) has the final say so. I ain't mad at you, that's just how it is. Well as the story goes, we've invited a few people and the RSVP's aren't just rolling in if you know what I mean. Hmmm, maybe we really are boring people?So the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/6939342943800399097/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=6939342943800399097&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/6939342943800399097'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/6939342943800399097'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/dinner-party.html' title='The Dinner Party...'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-405312352767118919</id><published>2008-05-19T14:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-21T08:37:44.265-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10 years'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='20 years'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='15 years'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='5 years'/><title type='text'>Kiss Me You Fool</title><summary type='text'>How many of you still  KISS your spouse?I mean really kiss your spouse passionately.If not much, why not?  If often, what makes you want to?Do tell...</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/405312352767118919/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=405312352767118919&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/405312352767118919'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/405312352767118919'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/kissing.html' title='&lt;h3&gt;Kiss Me You Fool&lt;/h3&gt;'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-4074900870869532104</id><published>2008-05-19T11:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-24T22:39:00.962-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10 years'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='20 years'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='15 years'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='5 years'/><title type='text'>Is He/She still the one?</title><summary type='text'>Have you ever wondered if you married the right person? Before you answer, remember ALL postings are anonymous:-)!What made you know that you made the right choice/a BIG mistake?If you had it to do all over again, would he/she still be the one?</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/4074900870869532104/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=4074900870869532104&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/4074900870869532104'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/4074900870869532104'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/is-heshe-still-one.html' title='&lt;h3&gt;Is He/She still the one?&lt;/h3&gt;'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-5704456323014139525</id><published>2008-05-19T10:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-21T07:59:31.050-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Emotionally &apos;dis&apos;connected'/><title type='text'>Pursuing Individual Goals...</title><summary type='text'>Why does it feel like some spouses don't want you to succeed?  I mean, you have a new endeavor (e.g. school, promotion, career change, exercise, business idea) and there is little to know encouragement.You are so excited and cannot wait to share, then you tell your spouse and he/she is like "Great...do you know where the peanut butter is?"WTF?  What do you mean?What do you do when the person you </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/5704456323014139525/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=5704456323014139525&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/5704456323014139525'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/5704456323014139525'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/pursuing-individual-goals.html' title='&lt;h3&gt;Pursuing Individual Goals...&lt;/h3&gt;'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-4348855469693497829</id><published>2008-05-18T08:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-18T09:05:54.381-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Did I get married too young?</title><summary type='text'>What is the right age to get married? My girlfriends and I all seem to think that a woman shouldn't get married before 28, but most of us did.Tell me your thoughts...If you were under 25 getting married, if you had it to do all over again, would you get married young?This one is for the ladies...</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/4348855469693497829/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=4348855469693497829&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/4348855469693497829'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/4348855469693497829'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/did-i-get-married-too-young.html' title='Did I get married too young?'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-5462242052276244525</id><published>2008-05-18T01:23:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-18T01:55:48.489-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Mail Bag'/><title type='text'>My husband is an idiot...</title><summary type='text'>Well maybe not all the time, but today he's an idiot. He acts like he can't do anything on his own without me telling him. "... take out the trash. Feed the dog. Feed the kids...". Why should I have to tell him to do the obvious? Come on man, you're killing me here. Jill, Jack... somebody help me here!-Frustrated and P.O.-ed</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/5462242052276244525/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=5462242052276244525&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/5462242052276244525'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/5462242052276244525'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/my-husband-is-idiot.html' title='My husband is an idiot...'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_wuSEjM5OdZk/SC_rTKWRx2I/AAAAAAAAACE/uO5QCOCJOrg/s72-c/husband_plaque.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-1566681511444267926</id><published>2008-05-17T21:00:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-18T03:48:57.020-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Soap Box'/><title type='text'>What in the world?</title><summary type='text'>Ok, we're joining the 21st century &amp; jumping into the world of blogs and the like. I know, welcome to the party, right? But with all the options and ways to skin a cat (sorry cat lovers), we weren't quite sure how to put it all together. And as you can probably tell, this thing is just a work in progress. So come in, kick off your shoes and contribute. This is the place for all things marriage </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/1566681511444267926/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=1566681511444267926&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/1566681511444267926'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/1566681511444267926'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/what-in-world.html' title='What in the world?'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-5681205472608706659</id><published>2008-05-17T00:00:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-24T22:39:17.234-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Topic of the Day'/><title type='text'>Topic for the day, 5/17/2008</title><summary type='text'>Happy weekend! So what shall we talk about today? How about why my yard is never cut. Come on ladies, what are we supposed to do about the yard? The man doesn't want anyone else to touch "their" yard. But in the meantime, we're living in a jungle with weeds up to the roof. What's a girl to do to have her yard looking nice?Thoughts...</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/5681205472608706659/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=5681205472608706659&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/5681205472608706659'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/5681205472608706659'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/topic-for-day-5172008.html' title='Topic for the day, 5/17/2008'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-189664451868742832</id><published>2008-05-16T12:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-21T13:09:33.170-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Situations and Scenarios'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Mail Bag'/><title type='text'>If that was me, I woulda...</title><summary type='text'>Ok, long story short, he bought a motorcycle and didn't even tell me. Is that a slap in the face or what? It really doesn't matter that he got a really good deal on it ($2,500) or if I love bikes too. The point is that he bought such a big item and totally disregarded my feelings about it. What should I do?</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/189664451868742832/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=189664451868742832&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/189664451868742832'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/189664451868742832'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/if-that-was-me-i-woulda.html' title='If that was me, I woulda...'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6168676869380071959.post-8689008109259170585</id><published>2008-04-21T09:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-21T10:08:09.131-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Videos'/><title type='text'>Test Video Post</title><summary type='text'>Hmmm... take a look and tell us your thoughts!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/feeds/8689008109259170585/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6168676869380071959&amp;postID=8689008109259170585&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/8689008109259170585'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6168676869380071959/posts/default/8689008109259170585'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jilljack.blogspot.com/2008/05/video-post.html' title='Test Video Post'/><author><name>Who Are We Anyway?</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06779532791470763743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
